Special case missing header build errors (on linux) (#354)

One of the most common errors i observed are build failures due to
missing header files. On ubuntu, this generally means that you need to
install some `<...>-dev` package that the documentation tells you about,
e.g. [mysqlclient](https://github.com/PyMySQL/mysqlclient#linux) needs
`default-libmysqlclient-dev`, [some psycopg
versions](https://www.psycopg.org/psycopg3/docs/basic/install.html#local-installation)
(i remember that this was always required at some earlier point) require
`libpq-dev` and pygraphviz wants `graphviz-dev`. This is quite common
for many scientific packages (where conda has an advantage because they
can provide those package as a dependency).

The error message can be completely inscrutable if you're just a python
programmer (or user) and not a c programmer (example: pygraphviz):

```
warning: no files found matching '*.png' under directory 'doc'
warning: no files found matching '*.txt' under directory 'doc'
warning: no files found matching '*.css' under directory 'doc'
warning: no previously-included files matching '*~' found anywhere in distribution
warning: no previously-included files matching '*.pyc' found anywhere in distribution
warning: no previously-included files matching '.svn' found anywhere in distribution
no previously-included directories found matching 'doc/build'
pygraphviz/graphviz_wrap.c:3020:10: fatal error: graphviz/cgraph.h: No such file or directory
 3020 | #include "graphviz/cgraph.h"
      |          ^~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
compilation terminated.
error: command '/usr/bin/gcc' failed with exit code 1
```

The only relevant part is `Fatal error: graphviz/cgraph.h: No such file
or directory`. Why is this file not there and how do i get it to be
there?

This is even harder to spot in pip's output, where it's 11 lines above
the last line:


![image](https://github.com/astral-sh/puffin/assets/6826232/7a3d7279-e7b1-4511-ab22-d0a35be5e672)

I've special cased missing headers and made sure that the last line
tells you the important information: We're missing some header, please
check the documentation of {package} {version} for what to install:


![image](https://github.com/astral-sh/puffin/assets/6826232/4bbb8923-5a82-472f-ab1f-9e1471aa2896)

Scrolling up:


![image](https://github.com/astral-sh/puffin/assets/6826232/89a2495a-e188-4288-b534-ad885ee08763)

The difference gets even clearer with a default ubuntu terminal with its
80 columns:


![image](https://github.com/astral-sh/puffin/assets/6826232/49fb27bc-07c6-4b10-a1a1-30ec8e112438)

---

Note that the situation is better for a missing compiler, there i get:

```
[...]
warning: no previously-included files matching '*~' found anywhere in distribution
warning: no previously-included files matching '*.pyc' found anywhere in distribution
warning: no previously-included files matching '.svn' found anywhere in distribution
no previously-included directories found matching 'doc/build'
error: command 'gcc' failed: No such file or directory
---
```
Putting the last line into google, the first two results tell me to
`sudo apt-get install gcc`, the third even tells me about `sudo apt
install build-essential`

crates/puffin-dev/src/build.rs

@@ -54,7 +54,13 @@ pub(crate) async fn build(args: BuildArgs) -> Result<PathBuf> {
         false,
     );
     let wheel = build_dispatch
-        .build_source(&args.sdist, args.subdirectory.as_deref(), &wheel_dir)
+        .build_source(
+            &args.sdist,
+            args.subdirectory.as_deref(),
+            &wheel_dir,
+            // Good enough for the dev command
+            &args.sdist.display().to_string(),
+        )
         .await?;
     Ok(wheel_dir.join(wheel))
 }